For a variety of reasons, parents and kids choose present-free
birthday parties. Some reasons are ecological, distrust of of toxic products in toys and trying to instill a sense of social responsibility in children. If you're interested in pursuing a present-free event, there is an informative guide at Children for Children, an organization trying to increase community involvement and social responsibility in young people. Find charities using one of the links here.
Charity Watch
Charity Navigator
Better Business Bureau for Charities and Donors
Charity Watch
Kids Guide to Giving
Then, have your preferences known to your party guests. It is essential that partygoers be informed of your plans well in advance. Also, it is a very good idea to have some sort of physical presents available for the young child so try to tie in your charitable giving event with a book swap or re-gifting party setup. See our article on present-free giving for more information.